Our dear friend, Jo Bigham, passed away Wednesday morning June 24th. The visitation, the service Saturday and the iterment in George Washington Memorial Park, Paramus was as Jo would have wished it. Her friends and family all loved her and will remember her always.

The deepest sympathies of all who knew Jo go to her beloved family. She will be missed not only by our Church but by the entire community.

We ask for your prayers for Jo and her family.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Josephine may be made to the Children's Organ Transplant Association, COTA, for Brandon K, 2501 COTA Drive, Bloomington, IN 47403 or online at www.cota.org/brandonk

Pray for Jo Bigham and her family, Francis Celuzzi, Lori Celuzzi, Colby and Greta Barker, the family of Brian Langdon, Judy Aubrey Callan, Carol Gangewere, Brandon Kobell, Ann Witte, Richard Rilliet, May Hagadus, Jennifer Maddalone, Neda Toomey, Maggie McVeigh, Viola Mastrarrigo, Claire Costas, Robert and Betty Morgan, the family of Barbara Casse, Colby Mc Garrity, and Kay Lynn York. The family of Mrs. Audie Williams, Burton Thompson, Tom Knowles, Willard Bell and his daughter and Betty (Bishop) MacDonald.

Congratulations to Stephanie and Tom Tully for the arrival Saturday, 28 June, of Jack Thomas Tully who tipped the scales at 6# 7oz. Thank you, Heavenly Father, for this new life in our community.

Pray for peace and for all our service men and women who are serving worldwide and for the men, women and children of Iraq. May they feel God’s healing power.

Come unto me, all who are heavy laden and I will give you rest.

INDEPENDENCE DAY PRAYER

Almighty God, you rule all the peoples of the earth.
Inspire the minds of all women and men to whom you have committed
the responsibility of government and leadership
in the nations of the world.
Give to them the vision of truth and justice,
that by their counsel all nations and peoples may work together.
Give to the people of our country
zeal for justice and strength of forbearance,
that we may use our liberty in accordance with your gracious will.
Forgive our shortcomings as a nation;
purify our hearts to see and love the truth.
We pray all these things through Jesus Christ. Amen.
(Andy Langford. U.S.A., 20th Century)
The United Methodist Book of Worship

THE LORD’S PRAYER

Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be they name.
Thy kingdom come,
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory,
forever. Amen.

How to Pray

Generally, to pray is to attempt to commune with a spirit or deity. It's something that hunter-gatherers, ancient Egyptians and Greeks, and followers of today's major religions share in common. While the rituals and conventions of prayer may vary widely, the intention is the same--to renew one's spiritual connection with a power outside of oneself.

Take the time to pray. No matter how or to whom you pray, it can be difficult to find time for prayer during busy times. One way to deal with this is to make prayer part of your daily routine, such as praying as soon as you wake up in the morning, right before you go to sleep, or before every meal. Many people also pray during emotional times, like when they feel sad, scared, or happy. You can pray at any time of day, and as much or as little as you feel is sufficient for your spiritual life. Some people make it their goal to maintain a state of prayer all the time by remaining conscious of their spiritual connection throughout the day. No matter what, if prayer is an important part of your life, you need to put first things first and make time to pray on a regular basis.

Find a good location to pray. Look for a quiet place if you have a hard time concentrating when your surroundings are noisy and bustling. Or, you might turn to prayer during times of chaos to find peace. As you become more comfortable with praying, you may find that you can pray anytime, anywhere. It may help to be in a place where the focus is on spirituality (such as a church or temple) or where the environment reminds you of your spiritual bond (like a natural setting, or a spot with a big view). You can choose to pray in the presence of others, or you can pray privately.

Get into your prayer position. This depends on which custom you're following, if any. Sometimes expressing your thoughts physically can make the experience more complete. As with any form of expression, people vary widely in how they position themselves during prayer: sitting, kneeling, lying face down on the floor, hands folded, clasped, or raised high, holding hands with other people, head bowed, dancing, whirling, swaying, and so on.

Prepare for praying. This also depends on custom. Some activities help to get people in the mindset of prayer. Prepare in whichever way you feel is comfortable or appropriate. People do this in a variety of ways around the world, including washing, anointing with oil, ringing a bell, burning incense or paper, lighting a candle, facing a specific direction, making the sign of the cross, or fasting. Sometimes the preparation is directed by someone else, such as a spiritual mentor or formal teachings of your religious tradition.

Begin the prayer. You can pray by speaking out loud, chanting, singing, whispering, or thinking. Some prayers are recited from memory or read in a book, while other prayers are more like conversations. Your eyes can be opened or closed. You can ask questions, seek strength, send good wishes to others, or give thanks. How you pray depends on how you see whoever you're praying to, and what you think will enhance your connection or bond. Are you worshiping a powerful deity, worthy of utmost awe and respect? Are you talking to your best friend? Or is it a little bit of both? Every relationship is different, even if the relationship is with an entity you can't see or touch. The important thing is that you find a way to feel closer.

End the prayer. Some people end or close the prayer with a special word (like "Amen") or phrase (like "May God receive our prayers") or a gesture (like bowing or making the sign of the cross), or simply by standing or sitting in silence for a minute or two.

Do find the time and do pray.